Stressing about being single on Valentine’s Day? It’s time to stop worrying about it and see just how being single on Valentine’s Day can actually be a good thing for those who are looking for love. We’ll show you how to make the most of this romantic time and show you how and where to find a boyfriend so when this time rolls around again next year, you can be planning romantic Valentine ideas for you and your new guy instead of stressing about being alone on what’s supposed to be the most romantic day of the year.
You’re not the only one looking for love right now…
No one wants to be alone on Valentine’s Day and that goes for guys too. You’re feeling extra-motivated to find love right now and you’re not the only one. This is a great time to meet guys who are also open to the idea of meeting someone special which makes it a great time to get out there and mingle. Use this time to go be social and spend time around other people. Cafes, sporting events, and yes, bars, are packed with other like minded singles at this time of the year. And, if you go to a movie or even to the gym on Valentine’s Day, there’s a good chance that you’ll see some single guys there doing just what you are.
This is the best time of year to attend a singles event…
It may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but singles events can be a great way to meet someone. With Valentine’s Day approaching, it isn’t just about romantic Valentine’s dinner specials; many restaurants and lounges host singles events at this time of the year. Attending these types of events with an open mind can be a fun way to spend your Valentine’s Day while also increasing the chances of finding someone to finish off the day and have some Valentine’s drinks with afterwards!
Friends in love want to see you in love too…
Take advantage of all the love everyone’s feeling by looking to your coupled-up friends for potential dates. Your friends want to see you happy and when they’ve found love they want the same for you even more. Ask them to introduce you to some of their single friends or even plan a double-date or group event for Valentine’s Day, if they’re okay with it. You never know what kind of great single friends your BFF’s significant other has.
Spend Valentine’s Day with your computer…
Instead of fretting about romantic Valentine’s dates for two when you are one; treat yourself to a nice dinner and Valentine’s drinks while you cozy up with your computer and look for love online. Use an online dating site to browse potential suitors and line up dates with guys who seem great. You may not make a love connection with date number one and might have to kiss a few frogs, but online dating opens you up to a lot of single guys, one of which could be your prince.
Celebrate with other single friends…
There’s nothing like a group of single girls having a good time together to get the attention of single guys. Plan a fun night out with your other single friends on Valentine’s Day. Hit up a bar or pub, or even a bowling alley. Letting loose with friends is a great way to take the pressure off and distract you from all the couples out on their romantic Valentine’s Day dates, while also making you more attractive to the men around you. It’s a proven fact that doing your own thing and having a good time draws guys to you because they see that you’re fun to be around. It makes you appear confident, which is VERY appealing to a guy and we all know that confidence is sexy. Get out there and have a good time and chances are that you won’t be alone for long.
Treat yourself on Valentine’s Day…
Why mope and let yourself stress over not having a Valentine’s Day date? Feeling bad for yourself isn’t going to land you a man, after all! Treat yourself to a solo Valentine’s Day date that consists of pampering yourself. Enjoy a long bath with some expensive oil and candles, do your hair, or shop for a new outfit. Taking time to treat yourself makes you feel good and boosts your confidence. You’d be surprised how sexy and beautiful a long and luxurious bath or some new lingerie can make a woman feel! And as a bonus: that confidence shows on the outside and makes you more attractive to the men around you.
It’s not easy to be alone on Valentine’s Day when you’re surrounded by candy hearts and teddy bears, and others gushing about their romantic date night ideas. Feeling sorry for yourself won’t find you the love that you want so the best thing to do is be open to finding love and willing to take advantage of what is the most romantic time of the year.
To sum it up…
Remember that other singles are out there feeling what you are and are just as motivated to meet someone special when this time of the year comes around. Get yourself out there and be around these people while being the happiest, most confident version of yourself so that you attract them to you. If finding a Valentine’s Day date is what you want, then this is the perfect time to get out and find one. Even if your love connection doesn’t happen this Friday the 14th, following this advice is sure to get you what you want in plenty of time for next Valentine’s Day!
Finally, I wanted to end this article with an inspirational alone on Valentine’s Day quote, but instead came across this gem from the late Joan Rivers that just might perk up your Valentine’s Day:
“Dont talk to me about Valentine’s Day. At my age an affair of the heart is a bypass!”
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